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It’s well documented that we love to turn to a quick fix drugs, alcohol, binge eating, any risk taking behaviour that fills us up for a second. She texted me she misses me.People with BPD, even in their happiest periods, experience this pervasive feeling of emptiness almost every day, and often they try and fill this with things that stimulate them. Tl dr: been using radio silence on an "ex" for a couple weeks after "breakup". She will return from her trip around August 10th. So, should I break the silence soon and see if there is any change in her attitude toward me, or should I continue the silence until after her vacation? I just worry if I wait too long then any chance of rekindling will have passed. She leaves to go on a two week vacation out of the country with family at the end of this month. I feel like she was taking me for granted and maybe is starting to realize that, or maybe she is just bored and wants me as a fall back option still.
Then a few days ago didn't respond to her text "I miss your face and witty comments". Didn't respond to her asking if I was ignoring her. Didn't respond to her invite out with her kids one night. So, about 2 weeks ago I initiated complete radio silence toward her. Of course I was really mad about this as she had told me not very long ago that she didn't want a relationship and if she did then it would be me. I eventually just called her out and asked about it and she admitted she met a guy on Tinder that she liked and was starting to get seriously interested in. Then within the last few months she kinda stopped being intimate with me, stopped inviting me out as much, and when I was with her she would always be texting other people. Then about a year later I warmed up to the idea but she said she wasn't really sure she wanted to seriously date anyone.
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We were intimate, spent most of our free time together, I got to know her kids and was pretty much invited to all of her little family events with her kids (going to the pool, movies, baseball games, etc.) She brought up the topic of officially dating first but at first I wasn't sure and wouldn't commit. Long story but after she broke up with her long time boyfriend a few years ago we got very close. I was in a complicated relationship with a woman for about 2 years until about a month ago. If you are tempted to make an angry reply, use the report button instead.Use your experience to form advice but put yourself in the place of others as well.Be respectful to posters and other commenters.Crossposting content from here to another sub, including your own page.Advocating, suggesting or justifying violence.Do not use the sub to push your personal agenda.Do not post or request personal information that can be used to trace you.Avoid tangential discussions, focus on helping posters.Do not use uncivil, negatively gendered, ableist, sexist or bigoted language.
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